Sometimes what you need is hard to swallow

Frequently when a therapist suggests that his or her patient might be helped by psychotropic medication the suggestion is met with concern, doubt, or even anger. This is even the case when a patient has been suffering for years from mood, impulse, or attention-related...

It’s not my problem so why do I need help?

It’s not my problem so why do I need help? Why does the partner of a sex addict need to get help? Many partners have found out about their partner’s sexual addiction through discovering the evidence. This discovery leaves partners in shock, confused, and filled with...

Why “Just Saying No” does not work with Addicts.

“Acting out” is moving negative emotions into addiction behavior with the purpose of not feeling those feelings. “Acting In” is trying not to ‘act out’ but without recovery (of the real self) which leads to feelings of deprivation...

Unseen and unnoticed: women and sex addiction

Often when people research, report on, or write about sexual addiction, female sex addicts are overlooked or ignored. While there are likely many reasons for this, it is in large part due to myths that we hold in our culture about women and sex addiction. Some of the...